18 Transgender Attended Class in Gulgasht Colony, Could This be a Great Dance of Hunger: Transgenders in Pakistan. How about teaching compassion, forgiveness and respect? The property comes from the father to their children. Men have a competitive instinct and women have a maternal instinct and these instincts make a big difference in the way men and women behave. I could go on. Which is just a better wording of what I said earlier. If poverty can be elimination, then crime for both black and white men will be greatly reduced. If she got her brothers to come and do this, they'd be arrested for unlawful restraint, but because she goes through ex parte legal channels and has the police do this on her behalf, it's legal. You seem to see them as a monolithic object/victim class. If a group commits to a thorough communication process, then it is much easier for them to meet deadlines or offer additional help whenever it is needed. You have fewer financial burdens with a correctly structured partnership. You also seem to think that women only become violent when they are brutalized. It can shift between the needs of the various projects under development and the company's functional units. That is what happens when we believe women are somehow less violent than men, and are not willing to hold women accountable when they are violent. They're not of course. Truth is, most men in the West have no more freedom of expression than their grandfathers did, and it certainly isn't helping when these male feminists dismiss their issues (e.g. By your logic, this statement would also be true; There have been great periods of peace during history. Try to educate yourself before making such sweeping generalizations. The saying goes "the mother makes the man". Crime and poverty go together. It goes like this: Judge: "Ma'am, you maliciously lied to the police and had your husband forcibly removed from his home and excluded from his children's lives. If women are denied or discouraged to use birth-control, or if they know that if they have a child they are given very little support in bringing it up. As if men are free to be themselves. So, in matriarchies, mothering - which originates as a biological fact - is . At present female politicians have to join patriarchal political parties and prove themselves to be macho men to be taken seriously. In the past, the demand for computation was far greater than the technology capabilities at that time. This should be backed by practical points, and the examples would be even better. Wars and violence are directly caused by men's aggressive and competitive instincts. It is taking all the elements of nature separate and independent. Men do a terrible job in ruling our world. The essence of the two social systems of governance is almost the same. In 1943, Maslow developed his hierarchy . Women have had equal access to education for the last half century. Now, whatever may be said about dominance, good or bad, there seem to be certain personality traits that lend themselves to leadership, and certain ones that don't. Are you going to say that is also a sexist remark? (2) Inevitably, as D&C 121 tells us, giving men authority is going to lead to situations of unrighteous dominion. The human male is very similar but fight each other with spears, swords, rifles, machine guns, bombs and rockets. The only way we can change this, is to allow women to rule our world instead. Just because you don't see female competition because you're not affected by it, does not mean it's any less aggressive than male competition. Yes, men tend to invent everything but that is because they dominate the scientific and engineering worlds. It is always men that are the most violent criminals, which is why prisons are full of men. It is just a matter of convincing women of this. They were extremely informative! And if they know that a child will destroy their career prospects, then we can understand why women do have abortions. Hi Mary Wednesday, I think the reason why you have more black men in prisons, is because most of them live in poverty. By Silvia Azaa Gutirrez B.Sc., M.Sc. Why would I? However, in the year it took to clear your husband of any wrongdoing, he's become a stranger to the children. Hi CSR , I care a lot about humans as individuals. When you go on about how men ruling the world has been such a disaster, you're making the assumption that it is because they're men that it resulted in disaster. Even democratic countries do this. Don't put different words in my mouth now. I said politicians in general do this - women as well as men. Our feet stink as much as any man's. Or will you 'forget' it and misquote me in a few days time anyway? Hi Girlwriteswhat, Competition certainly motivates men, this is why capitalism has been a success because businessmen are strongly motivated when competing against other businessmen. They tend to teach gender-specific roles to their male and female children. Patriarchy, on the other hand, is a social system, wherein males enjoy all the powers, control, and authority, and women are given subordinate roles. Now, I can understand why feminist think that. I never said. Hi girlwriteswhat, You are obviously ignoring the evidence that men have been ruling the world for the last five thousand years, through force and violence. Yes, there are a number of female inventors and scientists, but they never get the credit they deserve in our patriarchal world. Has it even occurred to you that stating men are violent by nature is laying the groundwork for justifying preventive incarceration? Don't you even feel a little bit silly that you're a man yourself when you say these things? William Bond (author) from England on July 16, 2012: Hi girlwriteswhat, The actual reasons why women abort is because in patriarchal societies they do not have control over their own bodies. You talked earlier about maternal instinct. It is a system of governance where the male member of a family or a social group is the head or the senior-most member. And now you've also declared women naturally less intelligent than men. I mean, don't you have better things to do with your life in first place or are you completely out of work? What about average women and average men? It was she who done all the research into DNA, but then one of her male assistants, secretly gave her data, to Crick and Watson who published it before she did. I am not that interested in systems, i am more interested in people. In the process of helping the children they will within a generation, also help everyone else in the country they rule, When matriarchy is discussed, some people mention Margaret Thatcher and point out they she wasnt a very caring leader, so it seems all women are judged by her actions, but we wish to explain that a female leader of a patriarchal political party, is not a Matriarchal government. It's just preaching. All political rulers do this - women included. Nice toys may make your day better. Boys are trained to be strong, superior, good planners, decision makers and not to express their feelings openly whereas. Another strawman. Most partnerships like to have one person focus on big picture concepts while the other manages accounting or financial obligations. Among animal species, the only female kin of a given offspring who will actually die to protect that offspring is a post-reproductive age grandmother. I think what is most pathetic about your statement is that your reducing men to nothing more than their biology. The fact is that is it nearly always men who fight in wars or commit genicide. The real scary part is that I think you genuinely believe that you want to make things better. And again, you seem to blame men for all the bad things that have ever happened, without once realizing that the competitive push of men is what carried us from hunter-gatherer to agrarian to industrial to post industrial. Now you may not see the advantages of matriarchy because you claim men and women are the same. It is important to know more about these two concepts. Go back to school. Youre forgetting that women are not all one monolith speaking in unison. To become a political leader is a perfect example. It is nearly always men, and this is to do with the male competitive instinct. "The fact is that is it nearly always men who fight in wars or commit genicide.". I totally agree with you wabond! Advertisement. You seem to see them as a monolithic object/victim class. Some of it is indeed attributable to men's agency. We live in an insane and brutal world because it is ruled by men who have an instinct to fight and compete with other men. And when she shared in the spoils he'd taken, it had nothing to do with her. I've found another mistake in your reasoning though: You make a correlation where there might not be one and sell it as fact. I don't blame them. Criticism is not the problem. Women who are not dominated by oppressive patriarchal societies are more able to express their nurturing and loving natures. 1. Put women in power in a matriarchal government and they will want to nurture the people they rule. We may not like it but last I heard women are human beings as well and I don't think that they should sit back and take the abuse and not get even for the treatment that is brought upon them. What is a pity is that Lucy83 and me both want the same thing, and that is the empowerment of women. So just trying something else because the old system is so bad, is not in the least persuasive. You are however not interested in political systems and won't or can't say what exactly will be changed. That is, "I want lots of stuff for my own kids! Can improve confidence levels of minorities. As for using violence as a calculated strategic method, psychopathic leader like Hitler or Stalin or just your local gang leader do use violence to achieve results. Patriarchy does one thing exceptionally well. The practice of polyandry is very rare these days; it is thought to be practiced among the Bahama of Africa, Marquesan Islanders of Polynesia and The Tibetans. She just made a demand of her husband, made it a condition of her continued love and respect, and benefitted from the result. This is what terrifies me about people like you. But I am not talking about the way women and men have been brainwashed into thinking patriarchy is wonderful. The family will also be better off because the man will do a better job of providing for the family. Then it can be argued that women should stay at home and look after the children and men should go out and rule the world. But i have confidence that women can do this, once they get into a position of power. We cannot always believe what is reported by the officials we must trust no one, and question everything. This is because if there is any individual a male of any species is going to invest in, it will be that male's offspring. Search my user name when you have a revelation that women are actual persons capable of personal agency and sovereignty, and who are fully capable of being held responsible for their own actions. The real reason for women being less violent historically is because they had men to do the fighting for them. Do you honestly think that telling the men who rule our world that they are being sexist is going to change anything? You are basing your entire argument on the absurd idea that women are neither competitive nor violent, and that maternal instinct prevents them from being competitive or violent. As for war and genocide, very few women get involved in this. William Bond (author) from England on June 11, 2012: Thank you Aincas, for your positive feedback. Just this sentence of yours could be straight from Orwell: "The public will also have to be re-educated to want to vote for geniune caring and nuturing women.". This is not created by men its the consequence of competition where there is not enough supply ( of seats of power in this case) to meet everybodys demand. As you have pointed out patriarchal politicans only pretend to be caring people. 4. We can more easily manage the data in a DBMS. People vote the most convincing actor or actress. Weapons using depleted uranium? This is a personality trait issue that is encouraged by some and dispised by others. In other words, in male competition, there is no equality, and this has been the case in every society ruled by men. In fact, women are more likely to instigate physical aggression against a partner, and up to 70% of unilateral, severe intimate partner violence is female-perpetrated. The idea of an all female government is ridiculous. The two parents have closely related genetics and may capitalize on their superior traits. One thing I might not have mentioned yet is that it is also nearly always men who stop those atrocities. Tell me, should I bother going over what I said yet again? But men are simply attracted to women with good physical appearance and feminine attributes. Hi PsyChuan, Yes, there are peaceful men but they don't seem to have a much power or influence, in the patriarchal world we live in. Then once we get into a violent situation we end up with psychopaths becoming leaders, because a psychopath is far more able to deal with violence than ordinary men. And remember, these TROs are unfounded or false--meaning the man did NOT brutalize the woman into behaving in this way. If we look at female politicians today, they are given a hard time if they want to get into any position of power and end up having to act and behave like men to get anywhere. It is also theorized that some of the earliest socities like Atlantis, Lemuria, and Mu were possibly Matriarchal-Egalitarian societies, they were also said to be technologically advance beyond their time. It is likely that their higher levels of the male aggression hormone "testosterone" is the cause - the same instincts that make them excell in sports makes them excell in crime. Hardly anyone would use violence as a calculated strategic method for achieving successful results. The advantages are that there is a partner there to share in all of life's ups and downs and that a family. We are mammals; it is the female in all species of mammal that care for the young. You dont like men much do you? Because a monarchy often uses family lineage as the designation of who can take over the throne, there are numerous instances in history when children were placed in this role. Now you're shifting goalposts. So why would women do a far better job in ruling our world than men? Then the answer is simple, allow women to rule our world instead. Because women enact their competitiveness and violence in an indirect way, where they do not face the risks involved in enacting one's own violence and competition, there is a moral hazard in putting women in charge of how and when said violence is dispensed. This is why both men and women would be better of living in a matriarchal society. The point is that for the average person in the street they want to be rule by sensible and caring people. Which would be all right, if men done a half decent job in doing this. Women on the other hand have a powerful maternal and nurturing instinct. Enjoy your matriarchy. I completely agree with this article, thank you for your insight. Take the story of Hypatia for example, she was a woman of absolute genius who made such attainments in literature and science, as to far surpass all the philosophers of her own time. And your entire last paragraph treats women like objects. The big problem with this argument is that it is not true, men and women can never be the same, because women have children and men dont. For instance in the French revolution that promised equality for all people, only succeeded in creating a reign of terror as men like Robespierre and later Napoleon Bonaparte fought for power. And in that time, men have ruled through violence, fear and intimation. 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