At this point there is nothing left. He will hurt your baby to get back at you. To just recent. so he can never say he never had a chance to be a dad. They also may threaten to take your kids, house or to ruin your finances. So maybe there is a planet that beemed these people to us to learn to go through life with a lot less trust and appreciate a good man / woman when we finally do seek a non alien partner. I got involved with , what seemed like, Prince Charming. He was supposed to come out to LA from NYC, for a short stay. I have just gotten out of a 3 1/2 year what I cant decide was either a Narc or Psycho relationship; he dumped me. And then, the hurt and tears start as I ask the N to please, if you know where(NAME of fairytale guy I met) is, please tell him that I miss him, and then I say, Im sorry that this CREEP couldnt stand YOU because I began loving YOU, and I know HE killed YOU and has been tormenting me with lies and trying to convince me that HE is YOU, NO! Just because the narcissist leaves you alone for some time doesnt mean they wont return. I did everything for him whenever he needed help with something, I love him so much and cared about him a lot. I told him flat out that he was not separated, what he was cheating and he got angry. She was able to leave u without any remorse and went on to live with her boyfriend, but the moment you wanted to have a life of your own, shes trying to come back. It was almost like he was enjoying it. There can be multiple reasons - you are not ready to break free, have formed a bond with your partner, have children, are dependent on them, or scared to be alone. not an easy road, but its the only TRUE road. Pointed a gun at him. He controlled everything. Him in email to let me go If he was having sex and trying to be with some one else. at the age 8 and still is a suicide risk, now at age 14. You can learn more about it if you find videos on YouTube as well about demons and the Jezebel spirit one of the most dangerous of all! He has only apologized one time for anything and everything else is my fault. Grey rock, showing them no emotion. And people can experience a variety of negative emotions, from anger to even grief-like sadness. good luck to all. I was worried because I saw things in him that I didnt like: he worked alot due to the nature of his business and time was short, but even so, I was always on the back burner. He immediately emailed me asking if I was 100% sure it was over. I move in with my sister. We were very much, in love and talked about the future often. My heart breaks when i think of all the effort i put into loving a vain guy whod do no effort to keep me. After 20 years of marriage to an N, I have been emotionally exhausted. One night, he was supposed to come to my house after I got off from work and he took so long, I texted him to cancel because I had plans for the next day. All of this suggests they may not take breakups that well. No Contact now for a month. Its just so hard to get my head around all if this. I was also without a job at this stage. About how I returned my husband, we got married for over 9 years and got two kids. Thank you for your post! I know that the pic is innocent and that it was when she left me.. but I feel guilty for not telling her and I have started to blame myself that its all my fault. He was very generous financially; Id just started working at the truck stop the day before I met the ex and was just coming off unemployment benefits and really struggling. Ever since Dr. okaya of okayaspellhelp@yahoo.com helped me, my partner is very stable, faithful and closer to me than before. I am also grateful for her sickness because it helped me to react accordingly with my ex N and was able to get out with my dignity, and teach him not to mess with me. Over time they start to devalue you and in doing so, eliminate your ability to make them feel better about themselves. Are you misremembering that fight? I am tired and want to get out of this world . They most often come back after ending the relationship. He would punish me sex and would not come by when he knew I was expecting him. Shes going to have a nice ass and lips. This was quite disturbing to me and I confronted him. Keep on with the NC strictly. Contact him via email chamberc564@yahoo.com (1) want your ex back. The feelings you would have in those situations are akin to how a narcissist feels when he loses someone. Ive read a lot on narcissism since I got involved with this man & I can say from personal experience, this seems to be exactly how they are. I honestly believe and reiterate the fact that love is incredibly the toughest thing the human kind is prone to deal with. He kept on putting the blame on me. They'll say anything (no matter how far-fetched the lie) to get what they want. I didnt know whether she has a problem or whether I am really never good enough for her. Wife number 3 who like exactly like his daughter. I have been in much counseling and had made great strides in recovery and becoming someone many had seen As one who was over coming Many devastating obstacles in my life! Wow.!!! And to wait for him hes thinking. i am a living testimony to it. My relationship with Ju developed from there. even your own kids.. until someone gets seriously hurt whether its mental, emotional, or physical. My kids were by then 20. Initially she seemed fine with the decision, we even signed a separation agreement. into the relationship, I realized he was with a married woman all along and 4 years prior to meeting me. Weve lived or are living through a lot people, lets not blank out a legitimate English word. He bought her a new car hoping she would sleep with him, when she did not he got mad. Its scary and they have basically, broken you down. My whole life has transformed to the negative because of him. We have lost loads of sleep worrying already and legitimately fear what is to become. i was propose to be marriage by a love one, but he suddenly changed his mind just because he found him self a new love, my heart was broken and so devastated to the extend of committing suicide, a friend of mine introduce me to a powerful doctor called Dr. KATE. The reason I even stayed was because we had a child with severe autism and the fact I didnt want my kids to grow up without a dad like me..I made all the sacrifices to make that happen..he took no responsibility for his visitation refusing to do them and giving me the lamest excuses..no money always sick .blah , blah..yes he was cruel to the point he showed psychotic behavior along with being a narcissist . Narcissists have a great way of manipulating and of course pitting your kids against you. He met his match. thinking about you would require some sort of emotional connection or human reaction hes not human. No contact has giving me my sanity back. It's easy to assume once the breakup is initiated, your nightmare will finally be over. Well. I was with one of these horrible ppl for 2 years. My husband was and still is destined to destroy my life.. Next day he come back. Victoria. She has been dealing with him filling her up with attempts to destroy me since she was young and able to comprehend. HE could never possibly be YOU though, because YOU were never real, and what is REAL that is so FAKE, is something I would not wish upon anyone. I had not told my daughter that we broke up, she heard about if from my son who lives with her. After the breakup of her one-sided, narcissistic relationship, Molly found the peace that had always seemed just out of reach. I dont think he could even fake it with me, he would just get so madso quick, because I was confronting his behavior.That and rage and fear had been his number one go to,manipulation tool. I have him blocked from texting and calling. Save. When I asked about his arrangements at home, he told me flat out that he was separated, had no intentions of divorcing and that he want his cake and eat it too. Reading Suggestion: 11 Typical Examples of Narcissist text Messages. Im new, and alone. Bites me and then leaves. Your tactic has almost certainly put them in a rageful state and theyll do anything to be back in control of the relationship. I have totally broken it off with her as well as divorced I even had to leave the church we attended due to her in-laws by her youngest son Also attending there; the manipulation was very easy for her there as I had openly testified as to the things that I had experienced in my lifetime ! If everything is so great why are they calling? he didnt trust me with family members of my own blood. After this God shot of scrolling through the internet, I now know what he is. He confirmed the latter, while drunk on wine and ego go go stuff. His way or nothing. this past week im trying no contsct but the verbal abuse via text is getting me down this is why i always give into his needs as its easier. Completely right just you and me. The best way in which to ensure that the breakup goes smoothly is simply to cut off all contact. 3. He has filled her head with so much insanity to the point of complete confusion. They are all psychopaths, females are less likely to receive this diagnoses they are more likely labelled as borderlines. He has admitted to me he cant live without love, he tells me that she really likes him (there is the adoration he is after, the reflection of granduer) I imagine she has supported his tragic tales of what he had to put up with from me. My boyfriend left me for another girl. He is. Its the latter part of that statement that really matters to the narcissist though; the feeling diminishes the longer youre in a relationship with them. Soon after he started to criticize me, but I know I am smart and pretty and did not need him to validate, it did not work. He recently filed for full-custody again so we are in yet another court battle. They(he) do not want you. Throughout my research, I've met victims of narcissistic abuse who were. Take away your ex's power by ignoring these comments and staying focused on the issue. he prevent me from seeing my daughter 4 3 weeks she was 15 months at the time he then filed to courts 4 full custody. I read a great article that taked about no reaction if no contact was not an option, After 10 years relationship with my boyfriend, he changed suddenly and stopped contacting me regularly, he would come up with excuses of not seeing me all the time. When i first heard of him i never believed his powers until i emailed him, after having some conservation with him, he did a spell for me and my ex lover who promise to marry me later came back to apologize to me, today we are happily married. And know you are not alone! We are not making this up. Ex husbandnot a narcissist..ex boyfriend DEFINITELY a narcissist. He calls and one minute all of a sudden he wants marriage counseling and hes coming to get his family, then the next minute he wants a divorce, or everything that has happened is my fault. Im not proud of my outbursts, but it all could have been solved with a phone call! Dont need this crap but looks like Ill have to deal with it anyway. Especially if I have to pay child support. Basically I feel like he will always have a foothold in my life, because of my son, I feel he planned this entire situation strategically, and I feel so lost, alone, and empty that Im deeply afraid that he will use my son to destroy me forever. The straw that broke the camels back was that I created a fake profile on a dating website with all of my demographics, but withy fake pictures attached. And I have been begging. Wouldt answer texts. Get a life! With normal people, if I ever said something it gets worked out. Narcissists also tend to see themselves as superior to other people, including their romantic partners. These are all things that can help you build a case about his character if he goes as far as pushing for custody of the child. He never complimented me on my intelligence, was always on my looks. We would fight regulaly and he would make it last for hours on end. 5 days later, she messages me and says send me a dirty pic of yourself. Take the time to Know yourself, Value yourself, have CONFIDENCE in yourself. Its so awesome to breathe again. Run a million miles from these people. I am so so proud of myself and know rhat I deserve a true happy love life one with respect. They are now moving away and 2 weeks ago they got married. We spent years and years brainwashed into believing it was all about them and our needs being neglected. They are all defective, but again I will point out that the women are far worst than my N brother. We chatted for months. 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